Bye Bye Bronco



This is John.  I sold my Bronco today.  Before I signed the title over I glanced at it and noticed that I bought it over ten years ago in April of 2004.  I was a young single guy, tired of trying to drive my pickup through the Kansas snow.  I fell in love with the 1978 and 79 broncos because they were built to last with one of the strongest 4x4 setups ever made.  It was short and stubby, with a determined look about it.  It looked like the 70’s. But not like the sissy disco 70’s, but like the flannel cowboy 70’s.

The bronco got me through lots of Kansas winters.
It pulled people out of ditches.
It took a trip with me to Lake of the Ozarks.
It hauled the skid steer that helped build our house.
Later it took me and the boys camping and fishing at a few of our local lakes.
It hauled tons of firewood to keep us warm in the winter.

It always caught attention.  It seemed to appeal to kids especially.  I remember one kid out at Hillsdale Lake asked me if it was a race car.  A girl who saw it told me she wished her dad drove it instead of the boring Mercedes that he owned.  I agreed with her that it was the superior vehicle.  And of course Seth and Colin loved it too.

I loved how it looked with the top off, and I loved to drive it around that way when I could.  I loved the fact that parts for it were dirt cheap, and considering how old it was it seemed like it hardly ever broke down.


So why did I sell it?

Well, I don’t drive it as much as I used to.  The Durango is great in the snow and a whole lot warmer.
I just got tired of that thing I have to do when it is cold and I come to a stop sign, and I put my left foot on the clutch and my right toe on the brake and my right heel on the gas to keep it from dying.
With two young boys I was never getting time to work on it.
I didn’t have the money to fix it up the way I always wanted to.  It needed an upholstery job and a new exhaust system.
And yes, the fact that we bought a piano recently plays into the whole thing.  With a large purchase like that we needed the extra money. 
But I’m not a martyr.  I’m a very lucky man with two wonderful little boys who take up all of my time.  And I have an amazing wife who plays so beautifully.  I’ve always said that I never feel richer than when I am sitting at home with a book listening to Kim play the piano.

After I pocketed the money and waved goodbye to the Bronco I went inside and picked up Colin so he could see it drive away out the kitchen window.  He immediately started crying and berating me for selling it.  It was really therapeutic for me to hold him because he conveyed on the outside what I was feeling on the inside.  And as I explained to him the reasons why, I was really explaining them to myself all over again, assuring myself that I had made the right decision. 

I did.  And I’m sad.  But oh so blessed.  Thank you God.






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Hearing country music while I shop at Ikea is a little discombobulating.

Happy Anniversary 2014

Today John and I celebrate 8 years of wedded bliss.

We bribed the boys with brightly packaged tv dinners (with glitter sprinkles they could add to their chocolate pudding - ick!) around 6pm.  Tucked them into bed around 8 pm and then enjoyed a candlelight dinner by the fire just the two of us. 


Happy Anniversary Husband!

GO ROYALS!!!

Seth and Mommy waiting for the opening pitch of Game 1 of the World Series.


Cheering on our team!

Oklahoma - October 2014

Because we can't seem to get enough of the family road trip and the boys had two days off of school last week we went to visit John's parents for the weekend.

Here's our teenage son. .. actually he's 8 but looks to be 13 in this picture. 
Colin found an inch worm and loved him so so much until he found something more interesting at which time he discarded the inch worm with little regard for its well-being. 
He did ask me to take a picture of him so Colin would always remember him. 

We had beautiful weather all weekend.   And now it's time to stay home for a while.

Someone said I Do

Our dear friend Heather got married this weekend!  Here she is with her new husband, Corey.  



We were honored to be a part of her special day.  Here are some pictures of the weekend.  

Amy, The Bride, Kim

This is how Seth and John stayed busy during the wedding prep.  They're playing checkers and listening to the Royals game (Game 2 of the ALCS - The Royals Won!!!)
Colin became fast friends with Ruby the flower girl.
Staying occupied while we wait for the wedding to start.
Cheers to the now married lady!
While mommy attended a bridal brunch...the boys visited Garden of the Gods
 


Congratulations Corey and Heather!  We're happy for you and thanks for inviting us to be a part of your special day.

Thanks to Amy, John, and Joanna for sharing your pictures.

Reasons to be Happy

John left notes around the house this morning to brighten my day.




The other notes made me smile, this one made me laugh.

Another reason to be happy...a thoughtful funny husband.