Brothers

There are a lot of decisions to make when becoming new parents. Some of our decisions were much like everyone else. What names do we like? What colors should we choose for the nursery? Cloth diapers or disposable? (Cloth by the way - just in case you wondered).

But there were some decisions that were unique to our situation. What country do we choose? Do we want a boy or a girl? Do we want an infant? I have to say that there's one decision I feel so lucky to have made. The blessing of choosing siblings.

There is no doubt that that choice was the right one. We checked the sibling box with a certain amount of faith that we would know what in the world we were doing. For the most part we've managed and for the rest - well, God is good to provide and grandparents are awesome!

And here's some free advice (I just can't help myself). If ever you encounter an adoptive family with more than one child and you absolutely have to know who is biologically related and who isn't (which I think is weird but that's another post for another day) - please don't ask if they are "real brothers". It confuses small children who believe themselves and their family members to be real - not fake.

Brothers - no doubt - they are!

Ethiopia - Likely April 2009

Kansas City - January 1, 2010

Home - January 2010

Playground - March 2010


Home - May 2010


Home - June 2010


Home - August 2010

Home - September 2010


Nashoba - October 2010



Nashoba - October 2010

Halloween - October 2010

(After face painting and bounce house jumping)

Big Balloons

We got to hang out this weekend with some friends and some big balloons. There was a hot air balloon festival in town. I wasn't quite sure what to expect but it was really cool. We sat close to the "launch" zone. The balloons aired up before our eyes and launched right over our heads.

The boys were fascinated for a bit and then got busy rough-housing with other little boys - Levi, Daniel, and Micah. Miles and Dariah stayed nice and safe on the sidelines.

Most pictures courtesy of "Auntie Heather". Some I think I stole from Amber. Credit acknowledged - now onto the pics.







Take Me Out to the Ballgame

Yesterday was a very special day at our house. Two little boys had a birthday and we celebrated in style. We kept it simple and planned a family whiffle ball game. Despite the severe thunderstorm that started just about the time the party did...we all had a great time.

The boys loved helping with all the preparations and Seth got the only thing he asked for for his birthday. He wanted "someone to throw a ball to me and I hit it." Done!

The weather cleared up enough to at least have some whiffle ball batting practice (the baseball diamond John mowed into our front field was too wet for a full game).









Happy 4th Birthday Seth! Happy 2nd Birthday Colin!

Reunited

John arrived home yesterday after being out of the country for a little over a week. The boys and I did great while he was gone but we are so happy to have him home.

Daddy surprised the boys by picking them up from daycare (usually mommy does it) and we all went out for half-price burgers.

This little boy couldn't be happier...

Welcome home daddy!

I Knew This Was Coming...



So far he's just commenced to playing upon his exit. I guess we know what we're doing over Labor Day weekend...bed shopping!!

It's actually a good thing. I'm tired of looking at that missing crib skirt. My entire male audience is asking themselves, "Cribs wear skirts?" Yes gentlemen. At least ours did.

Several months before the boys came home, my mom and I carried fabric swatches (little scraps of fabric) around looking for just the right coordinating pattern. We toiled over measurements and made a beautiful crib skirt making it appear as if we bought matching bedding for the nursery.

It took about a month for the boys to rip it down while playing hide and seek. It's become one of their favorite hiding places (second only to hiding behind the door). I've put it back up more times than I care to admit. I've given up.

And just in time too - big boy bed - here we come!

Visiting Clifford

A few weekends ago the boys and I spent the day with our friend Heather. We went to see Clifford. It's a favorite show around here and going to see Clifford was a big treat for Seth (he could go if he rested during nap time for one full week).

Here are a few pictures of the event.





Colin gave this little girl a flower.



Then he smacked Emily Elizabeth in the face.







Thanks Heather for the pictures and for spending the day with us while daddy was away.

Taking a Break

6:56 PM by John and Kim 0 comments
John has a couple trips planned this month. One for fun and one for work. I needed a break from being a mommy for a bit. It took 14 emails and 3 babysitters to get one night to ourselves. It was well worth it.

Thanks to Grandpa and Grandma Robinson, Aunt Kelly, and our pastor's daughter for watching the boys. They had fun playing, swimming, and watching movies.

John and I hung out in a quaint little town nearby. We ate at restraunt that required a reservation, slept in the next morning and went to the WWI museum (something John's wanted to do for a long time). My dad let us borrow his cute little convertible.



A view of our fair city from the top of the liberty memorial.

Nap Time Circus Act

Every day when we pick the boys up from daycare, we get a "day sheet" with useful information like what subject they're learning, how much of their lunch they ate, etc.

Seth's teachers mentioned in passing conversation that they've been having "a little trouble" at nap time lately. I didn't know how much trouble until I picked up today's day sheet.


Apparently, he likes to take his shoes and socks off and jump on the cot like a trampoline. I may not have given this boy life but we share this common trait. I also got in trouble as a preschooler for causing a rucus during nap time. I don't think I did any trampoline tricks but I did twist the arm of the boy laying next to me because he wouldn't participate in my nap time antics.

Seth is so full of energy (not a trait he shares with me) that the transition between awake and asleep can be a challenge...for everyone.

Oh and just for the record, his "level of participation" is always "3-active"...always!

Life in the Country - Play Time

I found a toy wheel barrel at a thrift store and just knew the boys would put it to good use. Today they used it to collect the apples that have fallen off our tree. Pardon the play clothes - it was Colin's 5th outfit of the day and I lost motivation to match. And I don't know why Seth insists on sticking his tongue out whenever I ask him to smile for the camera.





Pictures in my Head

Before the boys came home, I would try to picture them as part of our family. What would it be like to have two little people running around our house? Or how would they look sitting on my dad's lap at a baseball game?

The picture below is one of the images I pictured in my head...almost exactly.


This is my grandmother, minutes after meeting my children.

Here are a few more pictures from our trip. A big thank you to Aunt Kelly who came along for the ride. I wouldn't have survived without her help and I wouldn't have any pictures to share with you.

There are certain things that are only allowed at Grandma's house...playing drums with spoons and the dining room table is one of those things. (That's a Spiderman band aid on Colin's forehead...he tumbled with a ceramic cat.)

I have no idea how to explain this picture. There are so many layers to this pictorial onion. My family will appreciate it and will need no explanation so the rest of you will just have to make up your own caption.


The fun wore us right out...

...all of us!

Thanks to everyone who made this trip a special one for...well, me mostly. It was important to me that great grandma could meet the boys. And she, in true form, made the trip a memorable one for them. It will take me weeks to undo the spoiling that took place. It's okay though...that's what I remember most about her house. We got to do things and eat things we couldn't do anywhere else. She has a gift of making her family feel special and loved.

Video for my Mom

Hi mom! Here's the video we tried to send. Maybe this will work.

For everyone else - me, my sister, and the boys are visiting my Grandma in California. We're sending this video to my mom who isn't here with us.



We love you and wish you were here.

Oak-a-Homa

We spent Memorial Day weekend at John's parents house in Oklahoma. The last time we were there, it was cold and snowy. This time we were able to play outside.

Seth went fishing for the first time (he wasn't as lucky as his mother on her first attempt but he's got a good head start.)

We got to see a brand new calf (born just the night before).


There was plenty of four-wheeler riding.



There were also dips in the river, trips around the field in the tractor, and a late night watching dirt track races. We have no pictures to prove it because I temporarily misplaced my camera.

We had a great time and the boys took full advantage of all the ranch at to offer.

Family Fun Day 2010

Welcome back to the old digs, loyal readers. It's good to be back to the land of writing about whatever I want to. I have a few ideas lined up and stories to tell. It won't be, all boys all the time, but there will be plenty of pictures and stories about them too.

Like this one...

John's employer hosted a Family Fun Day at our local amusement park yesterday. We survived. We spent most of our time at Camp Snoopy, the kid friendly section of the park.

I forgot my real camera (amateur!) but here's a phone shot of the boys first ride. It was a thriller as you can clearly see.



Seth progressed to the more daring rides throughout the day. If he was tall enough - he rode it fearlessly. Thanks to Chad and Katie for hanging out with our brood. Katie stepped in as "the accompanying responsible adult" (that was the requirement for children under 48") on the spin-in-a-circle ride and Seth had a ball!


It took some fancy parenting to entertain Colin, who met the height requirements for very few rides. He loved the ones he rode though. He paid close attention to the sounds other riders were making and imitated them for the duration of the ride. Lots of ooooo's and ahhhhh's.

I funnel caked myself sick. I've already told John, Chad, and Katie that I hold them responsible for reminding me during Family Fun Day 2011 of how badly I felt after Family Fun Day 2010. No more funnel cakes for me.

Life in the Country - The Horse Whisperer

It’s been awhile since I’m written a “Life in the Country” post. When I first moved out to this wide open space, there were so many new things to experience and I tried to document them here.

I’m still experiencing new things but haven’t been as diligent about putting them into words. So here’s the first of three “Life in the Country” updates.

It’s been almost a year ago since this particular event but I’ll never forget it. It was my day off and I had spent most of the morning in the basement refinishing some furniture. I had worked straight through lunch and finally stopped sanding and staining around 2:00. I settled down in the living room with my soup and sandwich for a little break.

Just as I sat down, I caught a glimpse of a large figure running through our backyard. It’s not alarming to have dogs or rabbits or a squirrel scampering through the yard, but what I saw was definitely bigger than a dog. I got up to check.

I walked through the patio doors to see four horses munching on grass in our backyard. There aren’t any wild horses out here so it was obvious that these particular horses had escaped from wherever they belong.

I didn’t know what to do. I thought I could leave them and maybe they would just wander onto the next yummy yard or get homesick. Our horse, who was locked up safe and sound in our field, was getting agitated (probably jealous), which made the four escapees jumpy and agitated too.

One of our neighbors has four horses who have run away from home before, so I figured that’s where they came from. I knew the neighbors weren’t home during the day, and I was worried the horses would wander off even farther away from home. I took a deep breath and told myself, “It’s up to you. You have to do this!”

I went into our barn (yes my dear college friends I have a barn), for what - I didn’t know. I just figured I couldn’t use my persuasive personality to get them home. I had to use some horse accessory or country-living tool and what better place to find that than in a barn.
I found a rope looped up on a hook and grabbed it. I walked into the yard with my rope and just started laughing. Who did I think I was? What in the world was I going to do with this rope? What about my life experience up to this point gives me any idea what to do with a horse and a rope? Did I think I would suddenly garner the ability to lasso, and if I did – then what? Any one of those horses could have dragged me to Michigan if they wanted to.

I reassessed the situation and returned to the barn. In a moment of inspiration I had it. I grabbed a rusty old coffee can and dipped it into the bucket of sweet feed (that’s horse food for those of you like me who are “country clueless”).

I walked out of the barn shaking my coffee can to entice those four massive beasts to me. It worked. They suddenly were willing to see things my way.

I was able to coax three of them through the yard, up our drive, down the dirt road, down the neighbor’s drive and into their own backyard. The fourth horse was the most stubborn and powerful and remained in our front field. I couldn’t worry about him at the moment though. I was too busy sweet talkin’ these three.

I had seen John’s mom scare a cow back into a field once by waving her arms up and down like a big bird and squealing like a pig. I tried it and turns out it works on horses too. I got all three horses corralled and locked up.

The fourth one decided he didn’t want to roam the countryside all alone so he came home on his own. I opened the gate and let him join his friends.

And then I took a deep breath. I was filthy, scared, hungry, and gosh darn proud of myself (you have to say “gosh darn” when you’ve accomplished a country-living feat of this magnitude).

And then I called John to have him guess how I spent my afternoon. He didn’t guess but when I told him, he was gosh darn proud of me too.

Next up on "Life in the Country" - The Possum Trap