Happy Halloween 2014

Since we're one week from Thanksgiving it's probably time to post pictures of the boys from Halloween.

Halloween this year was chiiiiilly!  The boys refused to wear coats even though I assured them that their coats would fit underneath their costumes.  Still...they flat refused.  In comes Love and Logic parenting. John and I bundled up and headed out with Batman and Rafael, the ninja turtle.




15 minutes later we were back home after rescuing a sobbing ninja turtle who was "freezing to death".  I refrained from saying I told you so.  That is anti-love and logic. Instead I said we can try again next year.

They were fine going home to get started on their candy haul.

For a look back to Halloween past...2013, 2012, 2011.

Bye Bye Bronco



This is John.  I sold my Bronco today.  Before I signed the title over I glanced at it and noticed that I bought it over ten years ago in April of 2004.  I was a young single guy, tired of trying to drive my pickup through the Kansas snow.  I fell in love with the 1978 and 79 broncos because they were built to last with one of the strongest 4x4 setups ever made.  It was short and stubby, with a determined look about it.  It looked like the 70’s. But not like the sissy disco 70’s, but like the flannel cowboy 70’s.

The bronco got me through lots of Kansas winters.
It pulled people out of ditches.
It took a trip with me to Lake of the Ozarks.
It hauled the skid steer that helped build our house.
Later it took me and the boys camping and fishing at a few of our local lakes.
It hauled tons of firewood to keep us warm in the winter.

It always caught attention.  It seemed to appeal to kids especially.  I remember one kid out at Hillsdale Lake asked me if it was a race car.  A girl who saw it told me she wished her dad drove it instead of the boring Mercedes that he owned.  I agreed with her that it was the superior vehicle.  And of course Seth and Colin loved it too.

I loved how it looked with the top off, and I loved to drive it around that way when I could.  I loved the fact that parts for it were dirt cheap, and considering how old it was it seemed like it hardly ever broke down.


So why did I sell it?

Well, I don’t drive it as much as I used to.  The Durango is great in the snow and a whole lot warmer.
I just got tired of that thing I have to do when it is cold and I come to a stop sign, and I put my left foot on the clutch and my right toe on the brake and my right heel on the gas to keep it from dying.
With two young boys I was never getting time to work on it.
I didn’t have the money to fix it up the way I always wanted to.  It needed an upholstery job and a new exhaust system.
And yes, the fact that we bought a piano recently plays into the whole thing.  With a large purchase like that we needed the extra money. 
But I’m not a martyr.  I’m a very lucky man with two wonderful little boys who take up all of my time.  And I have an amazing wife who plays so beautifully.  I’ve always said that I never feel richer than when I am sitting at home with a book listening to Kim play the piano.

After I pocketed the money and waved goodbye to the Bronco I went inside and picked up Colin so he could see it drive away out the kitchen window.  He immediately started crying and berating me for selling it.  It was really therapeutic for me to hold him because he conveyed on the outside what I was feeling on the inside.  And as I explained to him the reasons why, I was really explaining them to myself all over again, assuring myself that I had made the right decision. 

I did.  And I’m sad.  But oh so blessed.  Thank you God.






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Hearing country music while I shop at Ikea is a little discombobulating.

Happy Anniversary 2014

Today John and I celebrate 8 years of wedded bliss.

We bribed the boys with brightly packaged tv dinners (with glitter sprinkles they could add to their chocolate pudding - ick!) around 6pm.  Tucked them into bed around 8 pm and then enjoyed a candlelight dinner by the fire just the two of us. 


Happy Anniversary Husband!